Motivational Math for Moms {Words}

Main Verse: Proverbs 18:21 (NIV) "The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit."
See also James 3-entire chapter and Proverbs 15:1

Main Thought:

Message:
Our words can deliver a gut wrenching blow or they have the power to sooth and build up.  I admit that I still need LOTS of work in this department.  I have been on the receiving  end of some ugly, hateful words, some of the kindest words, and even heard some of the most exciting of my life!  I know which I prefer.  As a Christian I am constantly aware of what I am saying and how I am saying it, and I fall short more times than I care to count.  There are seasons I have noticed where I am intensely aware of my words and I know I am not where I used to be and I am pressing on to be more Christ-like.  I am realizing  more and more that every thing my teenage daughter says doesn't need a sermon.  Every time a frustration is voiced doesn't mean I need to fix anything or interject "my two cents", although so tempting. When my son argues I don't need to get in the last word, I need to correct his behavior but not throw in sarcasm. When they mess up they don't need me to yell at them and tell them all they did wrong-they know.  When I feel out of control I don't need to use my mouth to tear down so that I can feel temporarily in power.  I am talking to myself but I pray you find wisdom and encouragement.  The Bible has quite a bit to say about our words, if we would just apply James 1:19 (NIV) "My dear brothers and sisters; take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry," we would see our children flourish, maybe even our spouse, and dare I say you, yourself will benefit.   I have heard people say that God gave us one  mouth and two ears for a reason.  Being in a school setting off and on teaching over the past 5 years, I am very aware of the power of words and it makes me extra sensitive that the same kindness I am using with other people's children I employ with my own. Take some time to consider where your mouth is at and prayerfully ask God to help you in any area you might struggle in. 

May God Bless,
Tiffany Harris